Since this original post there have been hundreds maybe thousands of prayers for my parents from AAPK alone, plus tens of thousands more prayers from friends of my parents. When I wrote this my mother was on hospice care and I was doubtful she would live until their anniversary in June 2018.orvet wrote: ↑Sun Apr 15, 2018 1:44 am I would appreciate prayer for my mother, Kathryn. She is 88 years old and the battle she has fought against cancer for the last several years seems to be drawing to a close. She and dad have been married 68 years, 69 years if she makes it to June. She decided against chemotherapy because the last round and made her so sick.
My brother and his wife are taking care of mom and helping dad. My wife and I are going down there this next week to help give my brother and his wife a break.
My parents both Christians, they have no fear of death, they know where they’re going and it is a far better place than here.
I think dad probably fears being alone without mom and I’m afraid he just might give up living.
I would appreciate your prayers for comfort for mom, she is dealing with some serious pain and comfort for my dad, Don. I suppose it’s daunting to think about being without your spouse of almost 70 years! I think the reason they both have lived this long is because each one stayed alive to take care of the other. Mom saw to it that dad eat right and got the right medicine for his diabetes and heart, and dad did everything he could to help mom.
Thanks for your prayers,
Dale
This last June, of 2019, my parents celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary. Mom celebrated her 90th birthday in November this year and dad celebrated his 90th birthday last week.
On Christmas Day my wife and picked up my parents and took them out to Christmas dinner. My sister and her husband joined us. We had a very nice dinner and a good visit with my parents.
Mom seems to have regained a bit of her strength, and I think is adapting to some of her limitations. It’s a bit harder for my dad; he has heart problems, which leave him feeling weak and tired. He does the laundry for mom and gets wood in for the stove and that leaves him feeling exhausted. But, despite their claim that they can’t remember things, they still have their minds intact, they love visits from their children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren, they are probably more in love now than they were when they got married 70 years ago and most importantly they love the Lord and have no fear for what comes next.
I don’t know if they will be gone tomorrow or they will live another five or 10 years. God didn’t give us a crystal ball so that we could foresee the future, and I’m thankful that he didn’t. I think it is better to live one day at a time in the presence of God.
Once again, thank you all for your prayers. If the Lord leads you to continue to pray for my mom and dad, I appreciate it and thank you. Whatever happens this year with my parents, I know the Lord has it all in His hand, He is in control!
