"The Summer of '56",a coming of age...........
Posted: Sun Feb 28, 2021 9:03 pm
Reading Jerry D's post on rememberin' when on the General OT forum brought back a memory that I may or may not have shared here before.
I was raised primarily by my grandparents and at the age of ten my grandmother passed away from complications of diabetes.This left my grandfather,who was 78 years old at the time to raise me. Although he had reared five children of his own(two others had died early)his child rearing days seemed to be over.
I didn't make it any easier as I was starting to fall in with a group who were somewhat less than honorable and my grades in school were plummeting as was my relationship with my grandfather. He decided that I needed a little,"direction".
He contacted his cousin who lived in rural New Hampshire on a farm and asked if I could spend the summer there working;figuring a little hard work would be helpful to my attitude. They agreed and one Sunday we jumped into the old Studebaker and headed to New Hampshire with my suitcase.
We arrived and I found out that Ed(my grandfather's cousin)and his wife Mae were still in the process of building their house!They were in their 70's as well but hardly acted it. The house only had one bed room so I was designated to sleep on the living room couch.Other than the couch and a chair the only other thing in the living room was a huge fieldstone fireplace that Ed had built with a double barreled shotgun(an Ithaca 10 gauge I found out later)hanging over it. I was instructed NEVER to touch it! I found out why the next morning.
I was sleeping soundly when I awoke to the sound of a shotgun going off about 10 feet from my ears! Ed was leaning out the window with it and cursing the deer in his apple orchard. After getting dressed and having a great breakfast that May fixed we commenced to go around the farm to see what chores I would be doing.
One of the projects Ed was working on was breaking up a large rock that was hindering the building of a wall around the farm.This was attacked vigorously with sledge hammers and chisels and occasionally a bit of dynamite! I found out later than the dynamite was purchased at the local hardware store in town about 5 miles away.
Another project was the cutting of wood for the fireplace.Ed had an old John Deere tractor(that he eventually let me drive)with a power takeoff on the side that he ran a huge circular saw with.The blade had to be about 3 feet in diameter and the whole table shook when it was running.I was scared to death of that rig and my job was to help supply the logs for cutting.
Ed's only vehicle was a 1941 Ford pickup with a faded green paint job and a 6 cylinder engine.After showing me how to drive it,he let me take it around the farm for various chores.More about that later.
While working on the wall,Ed would also bring along the shotgun in case he saw any deer. I must have asked him a lot of questions about it because one day he asked if I had ever fired a gun before. I said no and he said "Well I guess you are going to learn today". I can STILL feel the pain that thing inflicted on my shoulder when I finally got to fire it! Gave me a VERY healthy respect for firearms!
Anyway the summer passed very quickly and before I knew it the Sunday had arrived when my grandfather was coming to pick me up.That morning Ed said,Why don't you go into town and pick up the Sunday paper for May?" I replied,"Gee Uncle Ed it is a long way to walk!" He said,"Why don't you take the truck ?" I couldn't believe it! He was actually trusting me to drive the truck the five miles into town. I said,"But I don't have a license!" He replied," I don't think you'll have any trouble;I know the chief!"
As we were driving home,my grandfather asked how I had liked the farm and I said,"Great! Can I go back next summer?" I had learned to drive a car;shoot a gun;and work with dynamite all in one summer! Sadly I never did get to go back as May passed away that winter and Ed went to live with relatives.
A post script to the story: Fast forward to 1988 and I am antiquing one Sunday in New Hampshire and while waiting to get a coffee for the return trip home I'm looking at a vendor's display and I notice his business card.The last name is the same as is on a picture that I found of a woman while cleaning out my mother's apartment after she had passed. I hesitatingly asked him if knew that name and he replied,"That was my grandmother's name!"
We got to talking and it turned out we were related distantly. I mentioned about staying at Ed & May's place and the shotgun hanging over the fireplace and he said,"Yes and it is STILL there!" It turns out he and his wife bought the house after Ed passed away and they still lived there!
In a previous post I had titled it,"S**T Happens for a reason....." It just keeps proving itself over and over........
I was raised primarily by my grandparents and at the age of ten my grandmother passed away from complications of diabetes.This left my grandfather,who was 78 years old at the time to raise me. Although he had reared five children of his own(two others had died early)his child rearing days seemed to be over.
I didn't make it any easier as I was starting to fall in with a group who were somewhat less than honorable and my grades in school were plummeting as was my relationship with my grandfather. He decided that I needed a little,"direction".
He contacted his cousin who lived in rural New Hampshire on a farm and asked if I could spend the summer there working;figuring a little hard work would be helpful to my attitude. They agreed and one Sunday we jumped into the old Studebaker and headed to New Hampshire with my suitcase.
We arrived and I found out that Ed(my grandfather's cousin)and his wife Mae were still in the process of building their house!They were in their 70's as well but hardly acted it. The house only had one bed room so I was designated to sleep on the living room couch.Other than the couch and a chair the only other thing in the living room was a huge fieldstone fireplace that Ed had built with a double barreled shotgun(an Ithaca 10 gauge I found out later)hanging over it. I was instructed NEVER to touch it! I found out why the next morning.
I was sleeping soundly when I awoke to the sound of a shotgun going off about 10 feet from my ears! Ed was leaning out the window with it and cursing the deer in his apple orchard. After getting dressed and having a great breakfast that May fixed we commenced to go around the farm to see what chores I would be doing.
One of the projects Ed was working on was breaking up a large rock that was hindering the building of a wall around the farm.This was attacked vigorously with sledge hammers and chisels and occasionally a bit of dynamite! I found out later than the dynamite was purchased at the local hardware store in town about 5 miles away.
Another project was the cutting of wood for the fireplace.Ed had an old John Deere tractor(that he eventually let me drive)with a power takeoff on the side that he ran a huge circular saw with.The blade had to be about 3 feet in diameter and the whole table shook when it was running.I was scared to death of that rig and my job was to help supply the logs for cutting.
Ed's only vehicle was a 1941 Ford pickup with a faded green paint job and a 6 cylinder engine.After showing me how to drive it,he let me take it around the farm for various chores.More about that later.
While working on the wall,Ed would also bring along the shotgun in case he saw any deer. I must have asked him a lot of questions about it because one day he asked if I had ever fired a gun before. I said no and he said "Well I guess you are going to learn today". I can STILL feel the pain that thing inflicted on my shoulder when I finally got to fire it! Gave me a VERY healthy respect for firearms!
Anyway the summer passed very quickly and before I knew it the Sunday had arrived when my grandfather was coming to pick me up.That morning Ed said,Why don't you go into town and pick up the Sunday paper for May?" I replied,"Gee Uncle Ed it is a long way to walk!" He said,"Why don't you take the truck ?" I couldn't believe it! He was actually trusting me to drive the truck the five miles into town. I said,"But I don't have a license!" He replied," I don't think you'll have any trouble;I know the chief!"
As we were driving home,my grandfather asked how I had liked the farm and I said,"Great! Can I go back next summer?" I had learned to drive a car;shoot a gun;and work with dynamite all in one summer! Sadly I never did get to go back as May passed away that winter and Ed went to live with relatives.
A post script to the story: Fast forward to 1988 and I am antiquing one Sunday in New Hampshire and while waiting to get a coffee for the return trip home I'm looking at a vendor's display and I notice his business card.The last name is the same as is on a picture that I found of a woman while cleaning out my mother's apartment after she had passed. I hesitatingly asked him if knew that name and he replied,"That was my grandmother's name!"
We got to talking and it turned out we were related distantly. I mentioned about staying at Ed & May's place and the shotgun hanging over the fireplace and he said,"Yes and it is STILL there!" It turns out he and his wife bought the house after Ed passed away and they still lived there!
In a previous post I had titled it,"S**T Happens for a reason....." It just keeps proving itself over and over........